so i thought that the new "relationship" was just that. he really made it seem like he wanted a serious thing. so he came over to hang out tonight and left suddenly being confusing. then he told me that he didnt know if he was ready to date anyone and blah blah blah.
long story short, i called my ex crying for 20 minutes.
then decided with new guy that were going to slow it down a lot and get to know each other better first. keep it very casual, and whatever.